Monday, June 8, 2015

Shamelessly Persistent

My 3 year old daughter has been doing this thing lately. She likes to repeat "Mama" over and over again, even if I acknowledge that I hear her. I really think she just likes to hear herself say it. When I say, "What?" to her, she keeps it up. Sometimes she throws in a, "But, Mama." She says it fast, too, and on repeat.

I remember a commercial that used to air on TBS. I think it was for Family Guy. I never watched the show, but I can remember this commercial. The little baby, the one with the English accent, is trying to get the attention of his resting mother. He says, "Mama, Mama, Mom, Mama, Mama, Mom..." and so on until she finally yells, "What?!?!" Then all he has to say, is, "Hi." That's what this is like to me. Cute, but annoying.

And why is it that kids will keep asking the same thing over and over? It's as if they think we don't hear them until they say it 20 times. Even after you answer, they sometimes keep asking. As if the asking again will change your mind.

You know what, sometimes the repeated asking does change my mind. Sometimes, it's easier to give in than to keep saying no. I find that I often say "No" too quickly. Then, as they keep asking, I think, "Well, I guess that would be ok." And I change my mind. I give in. I know this is not great parenting. I am trying to weigh my response before I give it. But that's not what this is all about. It's about the asking.

Jesus taught about a similar situation. He paints the picture in Luke chapter 11. He is teaching his disciples about prayer by telling them a story about a couple of friends. The first friend approaches the other friend's house late at night and asks for some bread to feed a surprise visitor. The friend first says, "No. We are all in bed for the night!" But the first friend keeps asking and asking. He probably caused quite a ruckus.

Finally, Jesus said the second friend got up to give his friend what he wanted. He did this not because they were such great friends. No, he did this because of the "shameless persistence" of his friend (v. 8). In other words, he was annoyed and knew the man would not give up.

Then Jesus brings it full circle for the disciples and for us.
"And so I tell you, keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives. Everyone who seeks, finds. And to everyone who knocks, the door will be opened (Luke 11:9-10).
Now, let me just say that this verse does not guarantee that we will receive everything we pray for. Nope, no matter what we pray, God is still Sovereign. He still reigns over all the earth. I sometimes wish it could be different. But God knows the future, so He chooses to withhold some answers to prayer because He has a different plan. That's hard. For someone like me who likes to be in charge, it is often hard to not have my prayers answered when I want them to be answered.

But we can be encouraged from this scripture. If we keep on asking, we will receive. If we keep on seeking, we will find. If we keep on knocking, the door will eventually be opened.

You know what I have learned? That God uses what we pray for to change our hearts. The more we
pray and talk to Him, the more in tune we become with His will. Gradually, our prayers change. Something we so fervently prayed for can seem less important. We are guided to pray in a different
way, in a way that is in line with His plan. When we pray those prayers, it is only a matter of God's
timing. They will be answered if they are part of His will. We can believe that and claim that.

So keep on praying. God really wants to give us those good things that we pray for. Those things that line up with His plan for our lives. In Matthew 7:11 it says, "So if you sinful people know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly Father give good gifts to those who ask Him."

Be like my daughter. Keep calling on His name. He hears. He doesn't get annoyed. He answers in His own time. He wants to give you good gifts. Be shamelessly persistent.

Linking up with these encouraging blogs: #soulsurvival, #intentionalTuesday, #RaRaLinkup, #unite, #graceandtruth, #dancewithJesus, #TellHisStory, #coffeeforyourheart, #threewordWednesday, #belovedbrews


  1. That's a great post Kristen! Both of my children are grown but boy do I remember those days! You're so right about some prayers being answered and others not - God is Sovereign and loves us too much to give us something that isn't good for us. It's not until we've developed a relationship with Him and know more about what His will is for us that our wants and desires begin to change to be more aligned with His will. This reminds me of Garth Brooks' song "Unanswered Prayers," In the song, we see that no matter how badly we think we need something, God truly knows what we need -and- when we need it.
    I love your page design. I'm a fan of Ree Drummond as well and that comment you made about being an accidental farm girl brought a great big smile to my face.
    I'd like to check out those linkups you've got listed above the comments field, that's fun.
    Goodnight my sister, may God bless you and make His face to shine upon you. :)

    1. I remember that Garth song! Great one and so true. We won't know until heaven what God saved us from! Thanks for stopping by!

  2. Kristen,
    Thanks for the encouragement....God is a loving God and He will only give us what is best...blessings to you :-)

  3. I love your post!! I know the feeling of non-ending mom, mom, mom ...still from my seven year daily! I love that perspective of taking it to the Father with such persistence! So blessed to visit from #tellhisstory today

    1. It keeps going till age 7??? May I use it as a reminder that God always listens to me! Thanks for visiting, Winter!

  4. Keeping calling his name. Amen. And, um, I'm so thankful God doesn't get annoyed with me like I sometimes do with my kids' repetition. :) I'm glad you linked up at #ThreeWordWednesday.

  5. Kristen, I remember my Mom saying I did the exact thing as a small girl -Mom, Mom, Mom ... - endlessly calling her name until she answered. And then continuing. As little children we instinctively keep on asking until we receive, but then we get used to disappointment and things change.

    Let's keep on asking and keep seeking Him because "The more we
    pray and talk to Him, the more in tune we become with His will" (love this!). Thank you, Kristen, for sharing your heart at #IntentionalTuesday on Intentionally Pursuing. : )

  6. The graphic is awesome! Nice job! And secondly this is beautiful truth, "That God uses what we pray for to change our hearts. The more we pray and talk to Him, the more in tune we become with His will. Gradually, our prayers change."

    My daughter does the same thing but she is 13 and it isn't so cute anymore.She also does it until I look at her, because I have stopped saying, "What?" and she just smiles and says, Hi. When she was little she just needed me to see her, now that she is a teen.... I am glad she still wants me to see her. :)


    1. Makes sense, Dawn! We want to know God sees us too, don't we! Thanks for visiting!